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Unshakable Worth: Transforming Through the Power of Self-Love
When I started my perimenopause journey, one of the greatest gifts that life gave me was the opportunity to work on my most important relationship: the one I have with myself.
Through the ebbs and flows of hormonal fluctuation, I discovered that falling back in love with myself was not only a transformative and empowering journey but also a necessary one.
In a world that constantly demands our attention, energy, and validation, it's easy to lose touch with the essence of who we are. Yet, the relationship we have with ourselves is the foundation upon which all other connections are built.
Life often pulls us in many directions, leading us to prioritize others' needs, societal expectations, or fleeting pursuits of success. These are the external influences that can lead us to feel disconnected from our authentic selves.
Falling back in love with ourselves is a process of peeling back these layers of external influence to rediscover our unique qualities, passions, and values. It's about embracing who we are without judgment or comparison.
I remember the Divine Mother telling me this many moons ago: “Let your wounds bathe in the healing love of your Spirit”. Self Love is a powerful balm for old wounds, offering us hope for healing and growth. It allows us to address the areas where we feel inadequate, unworthy, or unseen. When we fall back in love with ourselves, we grant ourselves permission to heal and grow. This isn't about perfection; it's about growth, healing, and compassion. Loving ourselves creates a safe space to confront insecurities and transform them into assets and strengths.
When we love ourselves, we anchor our worth in something unshakable. External validation becomes less critical, and we find peace in simply being. This inner tranquillity radiates outward, positively influencing how we navigate challenges, relationships, and uncertainties.
The way we treat ourselves often mirrors how we allow others to treat us. When we cultivate Self Love, we set healthier boundaries, communicate our needs more clearly, and attract relationships that are based on mutual respect and care. Falling back in love with ourselves means we no longer settle for less than we deserve, empowering us to create the relationships we truly want.
I am leaving you some tips for you to consider.
If you are moving through the rite of passage of perimenopause or if you feel the need to truly care for yourself and rediscover who you are, you can start by doing these:
❤️Practice Self-Compassion: Treat yourself with the kindness and understanding you would offer a loved one.
❤️Reclaim Your Time: Spend moments alone doing things that bring you joy, whether reading, dancing, meditating, exploring nature or anything else that brings you in touch with your essence.
❤️Acknowledge Your Worth: Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small, and remind yourself daily of your intrinsic value.
❤️Forgive Yourself: Let go of past mistakes and view them as lessons that have shaped your growth.
❤️Seek Alignment: Align your actions, goals, dreams, and relationships with your authentic self.
Falling back in love with yourself is not a destination; it's an ongoing journey. There will be days when it feels effortless and others when it's challenging. Yet, every step we take toward self-love enriches our lives in countless ways. By prioritising our relationship with ourselves, we create a life that reflects our worth, beauty, and limitless potential.
Sister, it’s time to reclaim your inner power. Your true strength lies in your WOMB, the cradle of creation, and in your HEART, your source of boundless love. Honouring the connection between body and soul and recognising your ability to create, nurture, and transform is essential. Embracing your Freedom and Feminine Energy unapologetically is your Divine Mission.
Stand tall, Speak Your Truth, and walk with Courage. The world needs your unique power. Your womb and heart are your sacred compass, guiding you to a life of Freedom, Purpose, and Joy.
Our bodies are sanctuaries of life and love, not battlegrounds.
Our hearts beat with our truth.
Together, as empowered women, we are unstoppable.
Together, we are FREE.
Love yourself fiercely because your life depends on it!
With Mother's Love & Grace
Michela xo
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